“A person should not attach too much importance to the faults of others if he wants God to overlook his own faults with mercy” (John Tauler).
Certainly we notice the faults of others and, if it is in our power, it would be good to help them to overcome them by our example and advice. But the tendency to talk at length and in detail about the faults of others, to publicly point them out, and to keep stressing them, has nothing to do with this attitude. It is as if you were holding the other person captive to his error, and you can hardly escape the danger of pride yourself.
